So…. A married guy… In a monogamous relationship. Why Oh Why am I doing this to myself?

I had not spent that much time talking with Gene online before we met. We knew of each other for quite a while but just hadn’t been talking directly. I was visiting a friend, and he swung by. …

I like a bit of D/s play, even though I haven’t explored it much as of yet. The other day me and Matt had a nice evening, we got a bit more creative than usual, lets blame the champagne. He decided to pick out one of his whips when taking me from behind. Which …

Let’s face it. Most people want their orgasm face to be a secret. A well kept secret, only to be shared with their beloved partner. Some go as far as trying to ensure that not even their partner ever get to see it. Religious belief is wrangled to the extent where taking pleasure in …

While still exploring Polyamory a lot of thoughts keeps popping into my head. Is there really that much a big difference between polyamory and monogamy?
Except for the obvious differences, more than one partner at the time. But when you truly think about it, how many of the “mono” people out there are truly monogamous? …

Being Poly has its privileges, sometimes. I’ve been spending a lot of thought lately on my own relation to polyamory, which isn’t quite finalized yet. I’m still in a very exploratory stage of it. I’m almost convinced that it will result in me being a fully bloomed polyamorist soon enough. The privileges of it …