Every healthy relationship needs new and fresh ways to do things. Things as boring as household chores need to be made more fun. Either make it more enjoyable, or any wish to do the chore again will eventually die out. This is common sense, we all know this to be a fact; if you fail to make chores fun, you’ll eventually loathe them so much that you’d rather have someone else doing them.
In a relationship, someone else is usually your partner. It’s not very nice of us to give our lover a shitload of things we don’t really bother with ourselves, and eventually our lover stop loving us because we do. It’s a spiral slowly pushing you and your relationship further down until, eventually, there really is no sparkling love left to enjoy.

The obvious solution, of course, is to accept that boring chores must be done and that you are the one who have to do them. Plain, simple, obvious. Very obvious. At least until you’re in a relationship with someone who hate chores just as much as you do. Both of us can go to serious extends to avoid even the most simple tasks, and eventually blame the other for not doing them. Once it gets this far the system have more or less failed to achieve what needs to be done, and everything is doomed to go downhill for a while.
This is where a reward system comes handy. Quite a few girls I know tend to have a few extra “I have a headache”-evenings when they get to much of the chores on their hands, and this is where it gets interesting. Is a penalty when you do something wrong better than a reward when you do something right?

Canine training comes to mind, you need a mix of penalties and rewards. You can’t just be angry when things are less good than you want them, you must also show appreciation when they are getting at what you want.

This is exactly why I decided to give her an orgasm not only because I love her but because she lets me get away with not doing as much chores as I should be doing, and tell her that this was the main reason she had my tongue between her thighs.

Every healthy relationship needs new and fresh ways to do things. Things as boring as household chores need to be made more fun. Either make it more enjoyable, or any wish to do the chore again will eventually die out. This is common sense, we all know this to be a fact; if you ...