Have you ever asked someone else how their first time was? Did you eventually come to terms with the fact that most women seem to have had a rather lousy time, while most men seem to have been in heaven*. It raises the obvious question; why?
Is it because men are notorious bastards? Is it because women lack that particular communication skill? Is it because what women want simply ain’t important?
Perhaps. But that is not the why I believe the most in.

*) Well. Perhaps not in heaven, but certainly in her. Not a bad thing either.

I believe that the answer is how young women are treated, and how young women expect to be treated. In other words, it’s 90% how they were brought up. What their parents taught them, and what their parents decided not to teach them.

Think of it this way; if you are told that women deserve to be treated well and that treating them well might get you inside their pants, would you ever even consider using your bad manners towards one? Would you ever figure that if you suggest that she might be a lady for hire, and therefor she would be willing to spread her legs for you?

She might be the one who have her eyes on you, waiting for you coming of age. She might have plans for you. One bad word and that plan certainly won’t include a pussy. More likely a frying pan. Some people might want both mild blunt violence from a frying pan and some lovin’ of course, but that’s beside the point.

It will be really challenging to help my future children set out on a route in life where their lovers find them demanding and giving at the same time.
How about we all help them by providing a path they can actually expect to work to their advantage at all times?

Have you ever asked someone else how their first time was? Did you eventually come to terms with the fact that most women seem to have had a rather lousy time, while most men seem to have been in heaven*. It raises the obvious question; why? Is it because men are notorious bastards? Is it ...